My brother, my friend, my childhood playmate
I wish I could have known you as an adult,
I wish we could have talked and laughed and joked about life at an age where I would
Have understood and appreciated you as the person you became
I wish I could tell you how much you feature in my memories of childhood
I wish I could express how much you meant to me
I wish I could say “I have two brothers”
I wish I wasn’t at a loss for words when your friends discuss what kind of a person you
Were in your teens and twenties.
If only we had kept in touch instead of a few infrequent visits
You helped me realise how important family is
You made me realise that you have to enjoy every moment you get
If only you were here to enjoy some of those moments with us
If only it was not too late for us to get reacquainted
If only you could be standing next to me when I talk about “my brother – my hero.”
By Tanaya Apte
Tanay Apte is Nawang’s cousin sister. Her family and she have spent most of her childhood on the same road where my family stays. She spend a month with us in December 2000 after the sad incident and relived many happy memories of her childhood with Nawang.